All posts by Exgaycalling

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 38: ‘The ancient myths of changelings”

Beliefs in “changelings” are as old as the hills. In every culture and civilization, rumors were whispered of a secret true self, gradually issuing forth into the lives of a small group of exceptional people: the emerging of “changelings”. Rational science would seem to have tackled these flings of imagination. But they are back. Two decades of  radical-gay activism are shaping the moral landscape. Everyone is to feel new sentiments that “changelings’ do indeed dwell among us. How does this well orchestrated and frantic campaign intrude on your efforts to come to grips with your feelings? Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 38: ‘The ancient myths of changelings”

The persecution of JONAH, when will it ever end?

The onslaught still rages. In 2015, an orchestrated legal attack  by the notorious Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) targeted a New Jersey man and a small non-profit organization (JONAH) resulting in financial destruction and stripping them of their constitutional rights. They were silenced through a scandalous twist of law. One of the former leaders, Arthur Goldberg, has since opened a website about the Jewish worldview on all human behavior. The same radical-seculars are now going in to finish off the dissemination of Orthodox Jewish thought from American soil through total bankrupcy. Goldberg is appealing to the state Supreme Court. A crowd-funding initiative has been launched to help maintain justice for religious freedom. Continue reading The persecution of JONAH, when will it ever end?

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 37: “Squaw Camp, I can’t stand the place!”

You want to love women like everyone else, but you don’t. You don’t hate them, but you don’t love them. They do not fill your dreams, they do not catch your eye when you go out in the street, like other guys who claim to get an erection from merely strolling ten meters from their house. What’s up? Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 37: “Squaw Camp, I can’t stand the place!”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 8 of 8: “Bad legislation”

The proposed bill makes wrong assumptions, violates therapeutic standards, and contributes to further neglect. Above all, it does not tackle or scrutinize the highly contested gay-affirming and gender-affirming therapies. In doing so, the NZ youth is not being protected but one-sidedly handed over to the whims of the day, after which the book on the subject is closed. Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 8 of 8: “Bad legislation”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 7 of 8: “The new taboo is harmful”

The most harmful drawback of the proposed NZ legislation is that it will no longer be legitimate to talk to younger people in-depth about homosexuality. No more searching for answers, no more looking under the hood of the car or lifting the car up, only a ready-made identity to slip into, flags to wave, and parades to attend. Each therapist who is sincere, aims to create room for content, not to tackle society, but to help the client ask him/herself: what the hell am I doing?. Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 7 of 8: “The new taboo is harmful”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 6 of 8: “The emergence of backlashes”

The proposed legislation is not an ultimate solution for mental health care, it will become the ultimate problem. There are four backlash issues that inevitably must lead to professional condemnation of this fear-mongering. Can we already predict undesirable dramas stemming from this bill? Yes. And have they been taken into account? No. The Bill aims to induce a chilling effect on dissidence. To this end, the notion of thought crimes is introduced. More than 10.000 individuals in NZ have written a letter of protest. The professional mental health community is under siege. Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 6 of 8: “The emergence of backlashes”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 5 of 8: “The myth of the monkey race”

As a child in 1962, I saw a movie called “Toby Tyler, 10 weeks with a Circus”. I had saved three pennies in my piggy bank. I juggled them out and bought myself a seat. It was based on the book by James Otis Kaler (1880). Walt Disney made the movie and you can always trust Walt Disney. ‘Taken in by distant members of his family after being orphaned, Toby runs away to join a circus that had come to town’.

It blew my mind away. But can you get away with it in these days of animal-rights activists? Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 5 of 8: “The myth of the monkey race”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 4 of 8: “How the Bill drugs thinking”

A small fringe of radical transdelusion activists, stemming from the Harry Benjamin Association, is seizing control in New Zealand to crush resistance. In 2013, these Americans teamed up with the declining gay-lib activism in San Francisco and New York, the breeding grounds of political radicalization. We see them spreading deeply delusional worldviews on the Internet. Then they quietly ooze their way into the political arena where, after a brief slander campaign, the most illogical notions in the history of the human race are being carved into the stone of legislation, immutable and ever-lasting. They are overhauling all sane and logical thought in secular society. Their next move is the church. Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 4 of 8: “How the Bill drugs thinking”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 3 of 8: “Transgender? We are doing the wrong thing”

“We are doing the wrong thing”, says Dr. Paul McHugh, the founding father of affirming the transdelusion. Fifty years ago, the professor started medical experiments to turn fantasy into life, only to pull out the plug when all the scientific data finally came in, a decade later. He now opposes the movement he once started. It is growing way out of hand, he feels. Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 3 of 8: “Transgender? We are doing the wrong thing”

The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 2 of 8: Transdelusion ideology kills young people

The proposed New Zealand Bill demands respect for the lethal condition of delusional gender identity. It calls for five years of imprisonment for professionals who take any other stance. The transdelusion is a long and winding road of suicidal thoughts and attempts. Many patients narrowly escape death but a great number will die of the condition. Legislation is meant to terrorize people into obedience. What facts are being hidden from view to fool MP’s into acceptance? Continue reading The harm caused by a therapy ban in NZ, part 2 of 8: Transdelusion ideology kills young people