Exploring your full sexual potential, part 37: “I can’t play soccer for nuts”

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I was reading the daily news on my smartphone the other day, minding my own business, when all of a sudden, I saw this new campaign to be launched to change professional soccer into a more inclusive environment for, as they put it: ‘gay’ and ‘bisexual’ soccer players. Because in Belgium, there are no openly ‘gay’ professional soccer players. And that has to change, so we are informed. Damn, June. Pride Month. I had forgotten. Mosquitoes, sunburn, and Pride Month. How could I forget? Not to mention horny frogs, croaking in my pond all night. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 37: “I can’t play soccer for nuts”

Transdelusion campaigners have too much say over expanding hate crime laws, says top UK judge

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Judge Charles Wide, London

Transdelusion campaigners are being given too great a say over expanding hate crime laws at the expense of the wider public’s views, a top UK judge has said. The radical transdelusion campaign goes so far that now, for example in Scotland, a new odious hate crime bill would criminalize dinner table conversations in the privacy of one’s own home, if their “offensive” content is reported to police. Continue reading Transdelusion campaigners have too much say over expanding hate crime laws, says top UK judge

The absurdist fight against the transdelusion

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If you explain these days that ‘wrong bodies’ don’t exist, you have a problem. “A lie told often enough becomes truth”, according to Vladimir Lenin, the father of Soviet Communism, in 1904. “There is nothing so absurd that if you repeat it often enough, people will believe it”, according to James William, the father of American psychology, in 1890. As the new millennium is creeping forward, we see the idea of a “wrong body” morphing into a truth. People are starting to believe it. Be ready for an absurdist fight. Continue reading The absurdist fight against the transdelusion

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 36: Enmeshment and the “gay” identity

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When a young man leaves an enmeshed relationship with his mother, it won’t be an easy journey. The sense of self was nipped in the bud due to boundaries being blurred. But now that he is venturing into new terrain, empty feelings are bound to arise. It is so pervasive that countless men who sexualize same-sex attractions will ultimately resort back to their old state of enmeshment. Many remain there for the rest of their days. In others, enmeshment will flicker like an orange traffic light. When emptiness becomes the gut feeling, it is then that the ready-made “gay” identity sounds like a gift from heaven. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 36: Enmeshment and the “gay” identity

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 35: Enmeshment with the mother

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A mother can be a major source of enmeshment. Why don’t naked girls fill my dreams?’ This question lingers ever so often in the mind of men who struggle with same-sex attractions (SSA’s) and for whom those attractions appear to leave so much unfulfilled in their life. It seems as if there is a lack of attraction to the opposite sex. The truth is, however, that men who experience SSA’s have just as many opposite-sex attractions (OSA’s) as anyone else but they do not perceive those feelings as sexual. Enmeshment is standing in the way. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 35: Enmeshment with the mother

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 34: Beyond enmeshment lies the void

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The term enmeshment describes a relationship where no boundaries can clearly be distinguished. The relationship takes on the form of a unity like two adjacent vine plants who appear to have become a single flourish of green and color. When a whole nuclear family does the same, then boundaries evaporate, or no boundaries may perhaps ever come into being at all. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 34: Beyond enmeshment lies the void

You cannot convert from one sex to the other, pediatricians prove

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Pediatricians prove that the idea of converting from one sex to the other is not based on any science. They have proven that biology does not change, it is only the mental self-image which is at stake, and usually temporarily. Up to 98% of gender identity conflicts resolve over time. Biden, however, wants men with the ‘Gender Identity Conflict’ mental condition to compete in sports with natural biological women as if they were real women. Where transgenders seek moral equality, Biden takes it one step further and introduces physical equality. Those dudes are women alright, can’t see the difference, so he claims. Now, what on earth gave him that idea? Collision alert! Continue reading You cannot convert from one sex to the other, pediatricians prove

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 33: The forces behind same-sex attractions

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If sexuality is never fixed like a stone but more like the moving of sand as the tide flows in and out, how can one create new configurations? In this article, we will start tackling the issues that block the road to new insights. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 33: The forces behind same-sex attractions

For radical trans-activism, critical thinking has become ‘offensive’

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There are some things trans activists simply don’t want to learn about. That’s one of the lessons from a recent and on-going attempt to torpedo a study about gender dysphoria. In a letter dated January 27, 2021, the radical-activist California LGBTQ Health and Human Services Network recently discouraged people with gender dysphoria from participating in a study by the UCLA Semel Institute. Why? Continue reading For radical trans-activism, critical thinking has become ‘offensive’

96% of transgender youth engage in self-harm: study

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A new study reveals that virtually all transgender students are self-harming in Scotland. The pro-gay “Stonewall” school report for Scotland with the University of Cambridge shows 96 percent of the country’s transgender youth engage in self-destructive behavior, including cutting themselves. The report also found “incredibly high levels” of mental health issues in transgenders. Continue reading 96% of transgender youth engage in self-harm: study

The scientific understanding of Same-sex Attractions

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