Category Archives: Exploring sexual potential

Exploring your full sexual potential,‭ ‬part‭ ‬5:‭ The‬ emerging of heterophobia

Homosexuality is basically heterophobia,‭ ‬a deeply negative attitude towards heterosexuality at a very personal level. It is an acquired state of mind,‭ ‬with which you were not born.‭ ‬Its roots lie in childhood,‭ and it has been ‬a companion for so long.‭ ‬But not from birth.‭ ‬You have a deeply ingrained negative attitude towards intimacy with the opposite sex,‭ ‬and usually also with those who indulge in it.‭ One doesn’t wear it one’s sleeve,‭ ‬but deep down inside there is fear,‭ ‬repulsion and resistance.‭ Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential,‭ ‬part‭ ‬5:‭ The‬ emerging of heterophobia

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 4: Breaking free from Squaw Camp

breaking-free-squaw-camp1In the previous article, we showed that your problem is living in Squaw Camp during your childhood years. There you learnt to suppress and deny any hint of opposite-sex attractions. But how did you manage to survive? What happened to you, in what way did you learn to comply? And, above all, how do you break free from those shackles? Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 4: Breaking free from Squaw Camp

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 3: Living in a glass wigwam

Men struggling with Same Sex Attractions often feel a sort of weird alienation from the rest of society, so bewildering that they even assume they may have a genetic disorder. “I was born that way”, so they soothe themselves, although science has proven them wrong. You feel far away from men, and yet you long for them. You feel close to women, and yet, that is not your deepest desire. In this third installment, we take a look at the feelings of alienation that one may experience with Same Sex Attractions: living in Squaw Camp in a glass wigwam. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 3: Living in a glass wigwam

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 2: The sensitivity mismatch

square-oneMost men and women who experience Same-Sex Attractions (SSA’s) find themselves
belonging to the broad category of highly sensitive people, which comprises of roughly
a quarter of the population. In this part, we will focus on your sensitivity, and on how
difficult it is to identify with men who are far less sensitive. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 2: The sensitivity mismatch

Exploring your full sexual potential, part 1: how sexuality works

Exploring your full sexual potential as a man, a 24 part stage coach ride. Many men feel same-sex attractions, and wonder about their opposite-sex capabilities. In this series, we will look deeply into those feelings, riding from stage coach stop to stage coach stop. Continue reading Exploring your full sexual potential, part 1: how sexuality works